Our Circle of Family and Friends

Here we are, it is the holiday season!   So, let’s discuss the circle of family and friends each of us have.   Some of you are heading to the liquor store as I write this. 🙂  Others are baking and getting your homes ready for the Thanksgiving holiday.

I have the understanding/knowing that this moment is NOT our only existence.  We have all had past lives.  Each time we return, we get to decide what role we will come into the next existence with.  That’s right, YOU decided BEFORE you were born what it was you wanted to feel, experience AND the people that were going to be involved.

We travel in “soul groups”.  We tend to hang with many of the same souls.  Think of it as we all gather around the “conference table” and plan out what each of us will be doing, who we will be (you can change gender) and all of the experiences we wish to have while on this wonderful place to learn/feel.

So, the people you have surrounded yourself with this time around are there to teach you something about yourself.  The good , the bad and the ugly.  Don’t forget YOU picked them.  Yep, all of them.

So when you want to choke someone across the Thanksgiving table this year, perhaps you will come into awareness that the person rubbing you the wrong way is there to teach you patience.  This is also a wonderful opportunity to forgive those that have hurt you.

The challenges that we all have faced are also teaching us.  You see, we are meant to separate our emotions (learning tool) from the experience.  Instead of focusing on how you felt at the time you were hurt, focus on the lesson you learned from the experience.  After all, we are all here to experience what WE DECIDED to do this go round.  Hard one to accept for many.  In that, you will find your way to forgiveness and self love.

This year contribute to the ripple effect of love, forgive and practice patience.  “BE” with the ones you are with.  All my love.  Happy Thanksgiving!